Limits to anyone following these beliefs

Retain their own personhood

Anyone investigating this system needs to keep their own heart and mind intact.: They need to maintain their ability to think critically and rationally.; They need to continue self-evaluation. Are they OK? Are these beliefs helping them?
All members are to have the independence and resources to move on any time they want to.

People, couples, families, communities are more important than this theology: Soul Work Theology are just human ideas. Since they have no divine support, they are NOT more important than your family/community.; No arguing with your spouse over this.; No forcing your kids to believe something that will make them stand out as weird.
All members are to stay in contact with their family members.: No one is to leave or get thrown out of any family/marriage situation because of Soul Work Theology.; Members are to bend, or give up Soul Work Theology as necessary to stay in communion with family.
(If you want to keep some part of it, keep it private to yourself); Either this system works within existing families or it is not decent and humane enough to continue.

All members must retain control of their own life, finances, future.: No giving all to the group.; No giving more than a tithe.